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What are the qualities of your ideal girl/boy? :)

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

It may be physical, emotional and spiritual. Just be brutally honest.

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I'd love to write a very detailed answer on this, but I think for now I'd like to keep it for myself. :) However, do share your answer if you like to :)

Sumi | 13 years ago

Nice question.. let me reply in detail =)

Nabeha | 13 years ago

my ideal man is a true Muslim. and i want him to have the same idea of living a simple life with me. he does things i dont normally expect him to do and he shows me when he is mad and sad when he really feels it. i want his honesty. i want him to share his deepest desires, dreams and fears with me. i want him to trust me. that's all i want. he need not be rich or handsome or fair-skinned. seriously.

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

that's so nicely said, Aasiyah. May we all get the kind of partners we wish for who are the best for us, Ameen. Btw, just one thing - one should try to avoid uttering one's fears and rather keep them hidden (that is between the person and Allah - as far as I know). :)

Sumi | 13 years ago

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Aaquib Naved | 13 years ago

True follower of Islam (If she is, all the good qualities automatically come in). There is a perception that Islam is only specific and limited to the five tenets (Tauheed, Salat, Fasting, Hajj & Zajat) but it is much broader. It is a way of life. Harming someone with your actions, words; Earning by wrong means, not obeying our parents are all equally wrong.

Answered by: Aaquib Naved | 13 years ago

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may Allah SWT make you amongst the best husbands and grant you the best wife. :) ameen.

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

Alhamdulillah! Thanks a lot. I pray to ALLAH (SWT) to bless you in this world and the hereafter.

Aaquib Naved | 13 years ago

oh jazakAllaah khair Aaquib bhai. :)

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

Pleasur:) (Hmm Bhai ya behan??? :P )

Aaquib Naved | 13 years ago

LOL. :p do you want me to call you Aaquib sahab? that's more like uncle. hahahahaa.

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

no I was asking what to call you? Bhai ya behan!

Aaquib Naved | 13 years ago

Hehe. Behan. :)

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

Ha Ha :) OK

Aaquib Naved | 13 years ago

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Zainab Hussain | 13 years ago

Honestly, I dun believe in "ideal man/woman" It's just that how you accept each another with all the positive and negative points. But yes "he" shud be respectful..thats the only thing I look for.

Answered by: Zainab Hussain | 13 years ago

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The is the common answer of every girl...

Khawaja Naveed Haider | 13 years ago

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Aman Chaain | 13 years ago

One who believes in me. one who has got Realistic approach in life.. One with Global thoughts and local values.. A good smile, vivacious nature, audacious speaker and a patient listener.. Looks cud be totally compensated with intelligence. rather be a average looking, fun loving gal than a good looking, i-dont-know-wat-to-say gal !!

Disclaimer: Above all demands myt be too much. But we were talking bout Ideal.. In realistic world a 50% of above stated quality wud too. Just that the gal shud have learning appetite and she shud respect my parents. Buss itna saa demand hai! ;) :)

Answered by: Aman Chaain | 13 years ago

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Khawaja Naveed Haider | 13 years ago

She should be beautiful, innocent, caring and more like me. ;-)

Answered by: Khawaja Naveed Haider | 13 years ago

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so you like yourself. some people hate themselves, they look for their total opposites. :)

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

exactly...

Khawaja Naveed Haider | 13 years ago

imagining if you are stubborn and stick to your values and she is stubborn and do not necessarily share the same values with you...hmmm...could be quite dangerous, don't you think? :)

Sumi | 13 years ago

p.s. very humble of you :D

Sumi | 13 years ago

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Osama Afzal | 13 years ago

you never get ur ideal girl/boy ... prince charming or princess ... so we need to be realistic and restrict our list ...
I want a girl next door with simplicity and caring her best quality

Answered by: Osama Afzal | 13 years ago

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Good for you.. but we humans always have ideals

Nabeha | 13 years ago

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Hassan Ahmed | 13 years ago

Realistic Opinion, someone who can adjust in your family environment.

Answered by: Hassan Ahmed | 13 years ago

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yes, and at the same time incorporate her own family's good traditions into your family's. :)

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

so true !! :)

Aman Chaain | 13 years ago

hahaha... remember hani.. "shukar hai hamare han arranged marriage ka riwaj hai warna humara kia hota :D"

Ali Iqbal | 13 years ago

hehe

Hassan Ahmed | 13 years ago

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Nabeha | 13 years ago

He should be :-

Honest, Sensible,Understanding, Caring, Religious, Loving, Open minded, Average looking, Trustworthy , Someone who knows how to have fun and not very serious. He should accept her gf with her flaws and fully support her even when she is wrong. Lastly one who can make you feel special. and don't treat every other girl in exact same way. Woww I m very demanding =DDD

Answered by: Nabeha | 13 years ago

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But why girl friend? Why not wife?

Khawaja Naveed Haider | 13 years ago

Very! :P

Usama Hafeez | 13 years ago

Same for wife/gf :)

Nabeha | 13 years ago

woohoo. demanding! :D thats hard to find girl. but possible.

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

Well u asked about 'ideal guy' :P I knw its nearly impossible, that is why I m not searching for anyone =DD

Nabeha | 13 years ago

"and dont treat every gal in exact same way" .. lolz, thats lyk a added clause.. and soft way of saying: "I shud be the one with highest priority, nahi toh.... samjhe!"

Aman Chaain | 13 years ago

Lol .. Yea thats exactly what I meant :D

Nabeha | 13 years ago

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Umair Aslam | 13 years ago

good cricketer :D

Answered by: Umair Aslam | 13 years ago

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wow. :) i can only scream good at cricket matches. haha. good luck yaar.

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

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Ali Iqbal | 13 years ago

if she's ideal! she's too good for me, i aint going forward with that! :P

Answered by: Ali Iqbal | 13 years ago

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clever answer. :) she may turn out to be high-maint too.

Aasiyah Espina | 13 years ago

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