What is the culture and tradition of Pakistan?

Interesting and somewhat confusing question. When we talk about 'culture' and 'tradition' of Pakistan many of us automatically assume that we are talking about something very obvious and something we all have in common. However, before asking what culture of Pakistan really is, we first need to know what 'culture/tradition' really means. Religion is/can be part of a culture, it can be the culture itself, but does not have to. Traditions too form culture and we know that traditions do not always have something to do with religion. For instance, just take the example of all those 'rasams' (mayoon, mehndi, etc.) - do they have any religious/Islamic significance? Yet, these functions themselves have become part of our culture. (- How? - We need to go back in time to answer this.) The way a Sindhi celebrates these functions might differ from the way a Punjabi does and that too tells us something about the culture/tradition of those people, which all together form Pakistan. There is no 'one culture or one tradition'. Thus, depending on which aspect of life and what kind of people (ethnicity, 'regionality') we are talking about here, the answer may vary.

Well regarding your question: When we accuse youth or media of not following our culture we are mostly talking about the Religious part of Culture and traditions such as prohibition of Alcohol which is a part of our culture that comes from religion. Another example would be prohibition of pre-marital physical relationship is a norm of our society that comes from religion.

So yes when your mentioned questions are raised its mostly about the religious part of our culture.

And for you not being able to see Islam part, I agree most of our society has become kind of hypocrites who say we are Muslims and yet do ______ <--- (this list is looooong).

Just to be clear about one thing Pakistan is NOT an Islamic State. Its now a state where Muslims happen to be in majority.

i am not the person to answer it
but the correct question would be, what are the cultureS of pakistan!..