Zainab Hussain | 13 years ago
Lifestyle, as in ?
Shaadi, Hmm yes but it's not that we have to change ourself, the change comes itself, thats how things work out. you make compromises, make changes for other person, the other person does the same. thats how this relationship works.
For example, If a girl finds out that her husband is a smoker, she wud want him to leave smoking coz thats where she can't compromise, so the guy wud leave smoking or make it less for sake of his wife.
And then if the guy finds outs something that he doesn't like in the girl, he wud ask her to change.. so in short this is how life goes on.
BUT if you talk about our society then unfortunately, the girl has to change herself not only for the man but for his whole family, she is expected to do that, no matter how mental torture she has to go through, we actually forget that one can be flexible but cant change entirely.
Answered by: Zainab Hussain | 13 years ago