Sumi | 13 years ago
Well, if this is true - then, oh you ladies who don't know how to cook at all, start cooking. Men, don't expect too much. Just eat whatever is given to you. Too much fuss might make your wife want to stop cooking and start ordering from good restaurants for you. If you can afford it, no problem.
Those ladies who don't know how to cook good enough, don't worry -no body is perfect. Men, if you can cook better, please do so.
Those ladies who don't like cooking, change your attitude. Men, please make sure you have a cook, because this could be really challenging. You don't want to starve, do you (in case your wife denies cooking in long run)?
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I guess, my reply above already gives you a 'rough' idea of what I think about 'food' thing. Yes, I have often heard people saying this and it might also be true for some. There were times, when all what men wanted was a wife who can take care of his house: cook, clean, be nice to family members and raise children properly. Though, this notion of what role a wife has in household and what her duties are may not have changed too much over the years, some things do not hold as much importance as they once used to (and yet, it depends on the kind of circle you move in). Maybe maybe men now first want their wife to take care of them - more on emotional level.
It takes quite some effort to win someone's heart properly - at least more than cooking good food or buying expensive jewellery. To know how to win a heart, one needs to first find out what this heart actually needs (so yes, it could be that some hearts need food or jewellery). How can one achieve this (the knowing of what the heart needs)? Well, it depends on (as Osama said) when you plan to win someone's heart: before or after marriage. What's more important than winning someone's heart - since some hearts can be easily conquered? --> Well, it is not the winning that matters, but taking care of what one plans to win (the heart) - and sadly many fail in the latter.
A man (woman) might be able to 'buy temporary joy' with those jewels (with food) but perhaps nothing other than that.
[P.S.: What a heart desires keeps changing as well, but the core needs might still remain the same.]
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Answered by: Sumi | 13 years ago
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